On compassion and reward
I know that sometimes I start stories and they don't always get finished. Sometimes that happens because there is no ending - or at least there is not an ending to be found with the framing I was using. That was always the nature of my private practice - and my hesitancy in discharging children and their families. Who is to say that any person's needs are completely addressed? Or that as a therapist I was able to generate a perfect and complete answer that would persist over time? Sometimes the stories I think about finished themselves and were easy to write even if it hurt. Sometimes the stories needed some kind of ending punctuation - a final act from the therapist. I keep thinking about one story that did not seem to have an ending, so I thought I would visit with it again. I might have found an ending. +++ I wrote, "I guess now we will see what happens next." Xinren never came back. I never heard from the family again. I don't actually know what happ...